3.Regrets in Life

Regrets in Life

At certain point of time we feel regretful. We all do such things that we regret throughout our lifetime. We all have some desires and hopes that may be one day that thing would be done. We would just like to change those things which we have done in our past knowingly or unknowingly. We all regret the things we have done, reminiscing the mistakes we’ve made, the things we have said, the things we didn’t want to say, the steps we shouldn’t take, things we have missed, some decisions we could make but we didn’t and thousands of things like these we regret. In simple words, Regrets are the failure we made.

Regrets are the things which make us lose hope and feel bad. The worst part about is, we already know whatever we have done is wrong and still we cannot change. People have become depressed because of their regrets. They take everything negatively only because of that certain wish or the desire to achieve that or to change that thing. We are taking regrets as an obstacle, weakness and constraint which makes us stop to be happy but things are actually different in reality. It is all about the way we are thinking about our life that our life could be like this or the life would be like this. We are moving back in life instead of going ahead.

All things I’ve said is true and almost it’s the part of everyone’s life. Everyone is aware of the concept of regret. When people share something about their regrets, we are sympathizing them and things we say, “Everything will be fine. Just faith in yourself and move on”. We all know what is to be done when it’s come to give advice but when it actually comes to us we can’t do the same thing and actually we can’t do the right thing even if we want it to do. The reason behind this is we are just denying to accept the truth. We cannot do anything that has already happened and we cannot change that thing at all.

What we can do is just accept those things and with patience try to gradually move on with our daily life. In life we have so many things to do. Some shit which happened in past doesn’t decide our whole future. Instead think that worst thing you are regretful of is happened to teach you something. At least now you have idea how to deal with these kind of situations in life. And if you want to feel that pain then feel it but to certain limits. But at the end of the day only thing you can do is the move ahead in your life. Whether you want to move ahead or not you are gonna move with the flow of life. The choice we have to made is about how we have to live our life. We just want to stick to those regrets or achieve something best which makes us happy in our life. No one is perfect in the life.

Every single person on this earth has made mistakes at certain points. But there is no point turning those mistakes into regrets. Bad things do happen in life. We have to maintain the integrity and faith in our self. We always learn from the experiences and mistakes. The thing we have to learn is to accept those things and take those lessons positively. Life is the process of trial and error.

The precious thing I believe about life is the existence of ours. The fact that we are alive. We are still here and we are not the same person as we used to. Now we have power to determine about future. Now we are done to punish our self for the yesterday. Sometimes it’s hard to believe somethings at that particular time but eventually everything it all will be okay.Today we can differentiate between good or bad because of those mistakes we have made. So there is nothing to regret about. Nothing is eternal neither failure nor success and not even the happiness.