1.The Way to Success….

The Way to Success….

If someone asks you, What is Success? Why people are running after it? What would be your response? Does success mean to reaching at particular place, achieving goals, earning money, accomplishment of an aim or to become a CEO of any multinational company? According to different people there are different perspectives and different ways of living life. The meaning of success might be different for different people. Usually for us the success means the material benefits.

The point here is why it is so important for everyone to be succeed? And if everyone is trying to find success what do you think everyone gets success? The answer must be negative. The thing is every single human being on this earth has been trying to find infinite happiness. We just want to be happy forever. Now again the question arises how to be happy? This question is even more complicated than how to be succeed? You have seen different people in your life who are successful in their life. They have everything we wanted to achieve but still they are not happy. The reason is they are not satisfied with whatever they’ve achieved.

If we believe that if I had these many things, then I would be the happiest or the successful person in the life. But once you get it you want something else. Why is it so? Why we cannot be happy with whatever we have and why we have to achieve something in life? You have always heard that there should be a goal in life. Different people have different goals and they are achieving it according to their knowledge, prospective, intelligence, money, energy, integrity, honesty and with different factors which are required to fulfill that goal.

Nowadays people are running blindly behind their goals. They just want to achieve something. People are comparing with each other & then feel bad. How often do we compare over selves with someone less fortunate than us & consider ourselves blessed? More often, we compare ourselves with someone we perceive as being, having, or doing more. Everyone wants to be a millionaire. Everyone wants everything and this is the reason that after achieving many things which normal people cannot get throughout their lifetime, that person still would not be happy. Because expectations never end. People don’t care what they have.

I have seen people with good earning but they don’t have time which they can spend with their family. If you have money but if you don’t have time for yourself then its meaningless. Spare sometime for yourself and especially for your parents. If your earning is good but you have to work for 15-16 hours, then what does it mean? But it doesn’t mean you just have to sit, eat and sleep. We are born as a human so we have to do work. But what we have to learn in life is to accept the things & always be prepared for situations. Don’t be afraid to failure.

Most commonly people are unsatisfied with themselves. Always they want something else. People are attempting suicide if they don’t get something. If you don’t get it at once or you are just frustrated with your life and feeling like life sucks, then its okay. Feel that way. Cry for hours. Get yourself into it. Face it. Deal with your problem. In life there is always a loophole and exceptions. There must be something that you can hold to get away from your problem. Just be patient and accept the things. Half of the problems will automatically have ended.

Little spices are always necessary to be happy in life. Life should always be mixture of all tastes. We humans love variety & fusion of tastes and the spice is the thing which makes our meal delicious. Same with the life, without different spices our life would be boring insipid.